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LGBTQ+ Weddings

Being a part of the LGBTQ+ community ourselves we know first-hand how difficult, frustrating & maybe a little anxiety inducing it can be to plan a wedding day in a world that's viewed weddings for so long as for a bride & groom. We're here to kick that notion out the window & show up loud and proud for our couples. However we recognize that unfortunately not all wedding vendors are inclusive and while we hope that changes, we've decided to take on a mission of creating a safe space for LGBTQ+ couples in the wedding community.

On this page, we've shared resources for queer couples navigating the wedding planning process including a full vendor guide comprised of vendors who are inclusive!

This space is for you!

Wedding Attire

Photo

Video

Florist

Officiant

Catering

Makeup

Bakery

Rentals

Photo booth

Celebrate You Events
Rebecca Dodge, Untamed Events
Statt Events & Design
Plan with Posh
Social Maven
EDC Planning
Weddings by Gianna

Dani T Photography
Larkin & Trevor
Jessy Herman
Jaqueline Connor
Kelsee Risler
Jacalyn Meyvis
Malorie Deperna
Cecilia Denise Photo Co.
Chrisom B. Photography
Wonder in Adagio
Brittany Austin Photography
Seventh Arrow Studios
Lauren Branagan Photo
Rann Photography
Kenzie Gates Photo
Cassi V Photography
Danielle Buckner Photography
Tiny House Photo

ARay of Light Videography
Optimum Influence Media
Nightfox Films
Cassidy Mae Films
Candidly Kierra Productions
Needle Media

Encore Events
H & H Entertainment
DJ ToriVee
DJ Washburn
Showcase Sound
Signature Entertainment
ROC the Party

Creative Caterers
Farmhouse Table
Farmhouse Table Food
Partyman Catering

J Costello Officiants
Flower City Nuptials

Under the Arbor
One Custom Clothier
Gee June Bridal
Your Perfect Day
New Ivory Bridal

Blush Salon
Special Occasions Hair Design
Buffalo Curl Salon

Erin Hills Makeup Artistry
Special Occasions Hair Design
Giad Makeup Artistry
Laura Amaya Beauty
Salon A Go Go
Julia Glam

Capture That Photo Camper
ROC Your Event

Moonrise Floral Design
Erin McDonald
Marigold & Vase
Catherine Rose Floral
Sungrove Blossoms
Botan

Disco Sugar
Caramel Bakery
Get Caked

It's My Party NY Rentals
Erin McDonald

Toganenwood Barn & Estate
Crispin Hill
Glendoveer's
Sonnenberg Gardens
Seneca Ridge
Graceful Gatherings at LedgeRock
Abandon Brewing Co.
The Gallagher
The Mansion at Keuka Lake
Westminster Wedding & Events

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Inclusive Vendors We Love

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Are you a wedding vendor serving Upstate NY & looking to be added to our inclusive vendor listing?
Send us an email at arayoflightvideography@gmail.com

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Check out some of our favorite resources. Click on the graphic to learn more!

The best LGBTQ+ Wedding Resources

Equally Wed is an online platform filled with wedding resources for the queer community.
They also have a a book written by a member of the LGBTQ+ commmunity. We used ideas from this book to help create an intentional wedding that blended tradition with what felt like us!

A curated playlist by Ali for couples wanting more inclusive and diverse music to accompany their big day! Updated monthly.

Estate planning can look different for same-sex couples, especially when legal protections and family recognition vary by state. This guide is a great starting point.

Wedding Vendors

Are you a wedding vendor looking to be more inclusive?

Here is an incredible resource just for you! We applaud you for taking the time to educate yourself on how to better support your queer couples!

The SafeZone Initiative provides hands-on learning and practical insight to help you create inclusive & supportive environments in your community and work.